So another really pointless blog,my favorite. My father in law,who adopted my husband when he was about 6 yrs. old,when he married my mother in law  is finally truly happy. We  lost my mother in law 4 yrs.ago to cervical cancer, and after grieving and dating and just sorta being lost for 2 years he finally found someone.This person has just swept him off his feet! Love at first sight! I never believed in that saying before, but I do now after watching him over the past 2 years. The rest of the family however are just blown away by all this because Debra is in her 40’s and he is in his70’s. It’s mostly my sister in laws who just cannot wrap thier brains around their Dad being with this woman. Is this selfish or am I just out of touch here? She is younger but she loves him with all of her being,she is gah,gah, over him and treats him with such tenderness,I love being around them. The family thinks she is a gold digger,and is just after his money and property and whatever else he’s worth monetarily speaking. I think everyone is being selfish and most likely concerned about his will. The point is ….. he is happier than he’s been since I’ve known him, so why can’t people just leave him alone,and just let him be. I’m so excited that he’s not sitting at home still mourning his first wife. I feel bad for her because not too many people treat her well do to circumstances but she couldn’t be happier. Sure, she feels the hurt that comes along with the territory but she loves her some pretty amazing man! I guess if you love someone this much you take what comes with it and just love each other through what ever storm comes your way. As for me, I just love them both,and wish them happiness beyond any ones understanding! Thanks for letting me bend some ear!  later?  Becky   Yipee !!!

Hi there, today was one of the most beautiful days I have ever witnessed! Not too hot, not too cool, but just breath taking. I wish everyday could be this intoxicating! I appreciate gifts like these,ya know gifts that can’t be bought,or gifts you can’t put a price tag on,gifts straight from God. No where else. I could just feel Him ,sense Him, smell Him,hear Him,inhale Him ,it was  almost as if I could reach out and touch Him,love Him.I could just feel Him in the breeze, I wish this day could go on forever,never ever end. Who knows maybe tomorrow will be even better,maybe I will have a chance to share Him with someone who hasn’t met Him. Just some thoughts I felt I would share. Take a breath and blog off some extra energy that showed up after I came inside. Blogging is great therapy, kinda like a journal,no one reads. Well, on to my next therapy….The Hot Bubble Bath! Best part of a day well lived. Later,Becky

Hello bloggers, Just had to get on here with Great News! We now are catheter free and cancer free!!!Dr. said x-ray shows no cancer left and we don’t need any Chemo! Praise God !!!! He told Larry to go out tonight for a celebration and to make sure and order a Margarita !!LOL! He is going to do just that ! I’m so happy to blog something that does’nt sound like I’m Debbie freekin Downer!!! I’m going to go out in the front yard and do a cartwheel!! Well maybe not. last time I did that after I found out Tony Dungy was staying,and pulled 2 muscles in my leg, not good, but pretty funny ,at least at the time!  When Dr. said Margaurita  I saw a huge smile that I haven’t seen since this whole thing started. We had made reservations for Florida prior to all this and weren’t sure if we were gonna get to go ,but Dr. Said yes to that also !! YIPPEE ! Are we blessed or what? So that’s it, I feel better now. Just had to blog some of that overflow of joy ! All praise be to GOD!!!! El Puerto 6:30 tonight on me !!!!!!!!!

Well I’ve talked about this so much,I feel as though Im beating a dead horse. My husband has prostate cancer and he had surgery Wed. and had it removed. I’ve prayed about this for wks.now,and have felt good about it.Why then ,after his surgery yesterday did I feel like I  had hit a brick wall? Huge stress relief. If I gave it up to God why would I have this feeling of  overwhelming ,relief. I must have subcontiously been out of my mind with worry. This is just something to think about. Sometimes when we think we’ve lgiven something up for God to handle for us,and we know it’s in His hands,subconsciously we continue to try to handle it ourselves. At least I guess that’s what has happened here. I didn’t realize this until after it was all over, and I feel like someone knocked me into the next century. I truly had not given my concern up to anyone just myself. Just something I’ve been thinking about how to do better.Completely getting out of God’s way and letting Him have total control over what is concerning me. I’ll work a little harder at this next time ,like tomorrow. Later,Becky

Hey !  I learned something new yesterday! Never send your husband to the grocery store for chicken! My husband is currently in between jobs and has been around the house now for a few wks. I love spending some time with him but he’s starting to get a little stir crazy. Yesterday, he went to the store for me to pick up some chicken (on sale at Kroger) and he came home 2 Hrs. later with chicken and a bunch of junk food! He is the coupon KING! I asked why all the candy and cookies along with chips and doritos and he said”oh they were all on sale and I had COUPONS! I hate coupons! I think the stores should just lower the prices on all this coupon stuff for the wk. so you wouldn’t need a coupon. But no one asked me so anyway, I have  bags of  candy all different kinds. Last night I just had to get into all that candy and ate too much of it and ended up with a tummy ache. He doesn’t eat candy because he has diabetes that went mis-diagnosed for several yrs.because he is fit and trim.They didn’t find it until he ended up in the emergency room one night about  5yrs. ago . Sugar level was 520. Good is between80-120.So that is why we don’t buy that kind of stuff. I will eat it and I’m always watching my weight.  So be careful when you send your man to the store,at least the ones who love coupons!He also came home with a stuffed rabbit that is about 4Ft. tall. Oh yes, it was 70 percent off , left over from Easter.Named him Ralphy!  Help!     talk to ya later.          Luvs,Becky