So another really pointless blog,my favorite. My father in law,who adopted my husband when he was about 6 yrs. old,when he married my mother in law  is finally truly happy. We  lost my mother in law 4 yrs.ago to cervical cancer, and after grieving and dating and just sorta being lost for 2 years he finally found someone.This person has just swept him off his feet! Love at first sight! I never believed in that saying before, but I do now after watching him over the past 2 years. The rest of the family however are just blown away by all this because Debra is in her 40’s and he is in his70’s. It’s mostly my sister in laws who just cannot wrap thier brains around their Dad being with this woman. Is this selfish or am I just out of touch here? She is younger but she loves him with all of her being,she is gah,gah, over him and treats him with such tenderness,I love being around them. The family thinks she is a gold digger,and is just after his money and property and whatever else he’s worth monetarily speaking. I think everyone is being selfish and most likely concerned about his will. The point is ….. he is happier than he’s been since I’ve known him, so why can’t people just leave him alone,and just let him be. I’m so excited that he’s not sitting at home still mourning his first wife. I feel bad for her because not too many people treat her well do to circumstances but she couldn’t be happier. Sure, she feels the hurt that comes along with the territory but she loves her some pretty amazing man! I guess if you love someone this much you take what comes with it and just love each other through what ever storm comes your way. As for me, I just love them both,and wish them happiness beyond any ones understanding! Thanks for letting me bend some ear!  later?  Becky   Yipee !!!